We often hear news interviews where people reference their heroes (sports, arts, actors, rescuers, etc.) as role models. Some of their role models have reached iconic status and are even referred to as idols.
Who’s your role model?
What does this person’s example teach you?
I’m not sure I ever had one role model, though I have a whole list of heroes and people I look up to. Some have impressed me with their kindness, graciousness, generosity, and understanding. I have a few women friends who are examples to me in the way they act. The people I respect are faithful workers in their churches. Many of my personal heroes lived in days gone by, and most are missionaries—pioneers who never gave up. David Livingstone, George Müller, Mary Slessor, Amy Carmichael, Hudson Taylor, William Carey, and Adiniram Judson are role models for anyone. Of course, there are many more.
Closer to our time are people like Darlene Deibler Rose, Elisabeth Elliot, Cori Ten Boom, Joni Eareckson Tada, and Nancy Leigh DeMoss, who’ve inspired us with their testimonies, speaking, and writings.
If you were to choose an ideal woman for a role model, what would she be like?
Proverbs 31 is a good place to start, with the Virtuous Woman. She’s a wife, mother, provider, industrious, thoughtful, and she dresses with grace and beauty. She also cares for the poor, looks after her household, and makes sure her husband and children have what they need. She’s strong, yet her speech is with wisdom and kindness. This lady commands respect.
1 Timothy 2:9-10 say we should dress like and have the same attitude as godly women who fear the Lord. Godly women should be both our role models and clothing models. In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
A similar passage is: Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands (1 Peter 3:3-5).
How should mature Christian women act? They will be good examples and teachers. The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed (Titus 2:3-5).
Role models in the world tend to be in favor of just about everything that flies in the face of biblical standards.
We have a choice: embrace the models God has given us, or reject them and follow the women the world sets up as examples.
Let’s choose the best role models: women who love the Lord.
Follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness. Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on eternal life (1 Timothy 6:11b-12a).