Not too long ago, several of my friends were in dire straits. Each had health limitations, money problems, and other difficulties in their lives. They reached out for help—and people were more than happy to lend a hand, a vehicle, bring a meal, and wash some laundry. When the need was known, Christian friends were there for them.
I know it must’ve been humbling to say, “I can hardly move, and I need help,” but it was the right thing to do. That’s what the body of Christ is all about. We let our needs be known, and our fellow Christians take up the slack for us. They have the opportunity to minister. Someday, when we feel better, we can do the same for them.
Letting needs be known is different from begging. Begging is asking for charity and not going through the proper channels.
When King David was an old man, he said, I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread (Psalm 37:25).
God indeed promises to provide all our needs.
But, the truth is, sometimes Christians suffer.
Many years ago, I found out that a widow in our church had been eating watery soup for more than a month because she had no money. The church could have helped her, had we any idea at all. But, she was ashamed, and we didn’t know. Therefore, she suffered.
Others are disobeying God, and sometimes God chastises. Of course, we aren’t God, and we can’t tell when it’s chastisement or not, but there are times I wonder. Not too long ago, someone called my pastor husband, saying they didn’t have anything at all in the house to eat. Knowing the backstory, it was sadder than the simple need for food. Was this God’s trying to get this person’s attention, so he would do right? I don’t know.
Some Christians refuse to work, because they like welfare, and the work they’re qualified to do doesn’t pay much. They would prefer to sit back and let the government take care of them—and complain it’s not enough. The Bible says (talking about those who are physically able), For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat (2 Thessalonians 3:10).
It goes further. But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel (1 Timothy 5:8). The Bible has harsh words for those who are lazy.
I personally admire someone who advertises, “Will work for food.” Good for him!
Do you have a need?
Have you prayed? Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. How much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him? (Matthew 7:7, 11b)
Did you let your pastor know? Speaking about the relationship between church members and pastors, the Bible says, Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you (Hebrews 13:17).
Hudson Taylor, George Müller, and other godly men of the past purposed in their hearts to depend upon the Lord alone and not publicly announce their needs. They prayed, and God answered. For Taylor, who lived in China, the help was often on the way before he actually prayed. Your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him (Matthew 6:8b). Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not (Jeremiah 33:3).
If you don’t have pressing needs at this time, and you can share with others, see who you can help. As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith (Galatians 6:10).
Sometimes, a person only needs a hug and encouraging words. But, some people need the use of a car for a day or two, or a meal, or a helping hand at home, or someone to watch the children for a few hours. You can make someone’s day by helping others.
If you don’t know who needs help, ask your pastor.
Is it okay for Christians to literally beg? I don’t think so.
Can you let your needs be known? Yes, absolutely, and you should at least let the Lord know about them in prayer.
Should you offer to work for pay? Of course, if you are physically able.
As a church, should we be looking out for others? Yes. Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world (James 1:27).
God has met our needs many times when we prayed about them. At least some of those answers were miraculous. God burdened others to help us in the amount we needed at the right time. He is a loving Father and delights in hearing His children’s petitions.
May He use you to meet others’ needs—and your own.
If you’d like to share a personal testimony about how God met a specific need, please feel free to comment.