Many women don’t like themselves. Maybe they look in the mirror and scowl, but for the majority, it goes much deeper. They simply don’t like who they are … and they don’t know how to be what they want to be.
What’s the problem? It could be many things, for example:
- Emotions—Ups and downs, the rollercoaster of women’s lives
- Health issues—Underlying health problems and/or pain can greatly affect how we feel about ourselves.
- Comparison—Social media shows one side of people’s lives, but women still tend to believe what they see—and want it.
- A lack of biblical perspective—An accurate look at Scripture will help us improve and accept ourselves today. It will also give us goals and purpose.
- Lack of contentment—Contentment helps us be happy with ourselves as well as what we have.
- Unachievable goals—Many women set their goals as if they were someone else. They think they have to achieve something great in order to succeed.
Let’s look at the Bible to see who you are and what you need to strive for.
- You are an amazing creation. God planned you from the very beginning, when you were in the womb. For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother’s womb. I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them (Psalm 139:13-16). Therefore, since God made you wonderful and marvellous in His divine plan, you can praise Him for exactly how you are.
- To God, you were worth saving. It was because of Jesus’ payment for sins and not because of any merits on your part. Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost (Titus 3:5). For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life (John 3:16). I don’t think I will ever fully comprehend how a holy God could love sinners—but He does. Praise Him!
- God cares about every little detail of your life. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered (Matthew 10:30). How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee (Psalm 139:17-18). Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you (1 Peter 5:7).
- The Lord promises to meet your needs—all of them. But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).
- If you trust Him, He will also be your guide. Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass (Psalm 37:5).
- Contentment can be learned. The Apostle Paul said, Not that I speak in respect of want (lack): for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content (Philippians 4:11). He goes on to say we should be content with what we have right now. Let your conversation (lifestyle) be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee (Hebrews 13:5).
- Understand that God loves to use weak things, and be thankful He wants to use you. For ye see your calling, brethren, how that not many wise men after the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called: But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty; And base things of the world, and things which are despised, hath God chosen, yea, and things which are not, to bring to nought things that are: That no flesh should glory in his presence. But of him are ye in Christ Jesus, who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption: That, according as it is written, He that glorieth, let him glory in the Lord (1 Corinthians 1:26-31).
- Set a simple goal: to bring glory to God. Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31).
Love God, and accept yourself as a masterpiece of divine artwork, created for His glory.
God bless you today!